Islamic manners among Muslims are frequently emphasized, often highlighted in Jumuah Khutbah (Friday sermons). However, it appears that these reminders have become somewhat of a ritual, where we listen to the speeches without truly reflecting on their significance or implementing their teachings in our lives.
Rather than reiterating these teachings, I wish to draw attention to a common occurrence where despite our familiarity with Quranic verses and Hadiths regarding interpersonal conduct, instances of offensive behavior towards fellow Muslims arise. Occasionally, a member may utter words that not only offend an individual but also disparage an entire group based on nationality or other identities.
Recently, a brother shared his grievance over being personally insulted, along with his entire nationality, by derogatory remarks. Such incidents should be avoided at all costs.
While there are established protocols and guidelines to address such situations, initiating formal actions may not always be feasible or effective. I am grateful not to bear the responsibility of making such decisions.
Therefore, I implore all members of our community to exercise restraint in moments of anger and to be mindful of their words. While cultural and background differences may exist, adherence to good Islamic manners is a universal obligation for all Muslims and cannot be disputed. And to always remember that you are an image of your society and your nationality.